Getting The Same Thing Over and Over Again.

How many times have we tried to change something in our life only to find that nothing has really changed?
It is a constant dilemma of the same-old, same-old. Every time we try to change we seem to get unwillingly dragged back into the same situations

There is good news though, these are programs that are running within YOU and they can be changed once you learn how. It may take some time but they can be changed. The key is in learning why this happens to you and how to change the program.

In Dr. Bruce Lipton’s book ‘The Biology Of Belief’, Lipton explains how these events in our life become chemical programs in our cells and the way to change those programs is to change the energy system in our bodies.

The challenge for most folks is they believe it can be done through positive affirmations. The success rate in that is very small and takes a lot of dedication to move beyond all the negative ‘Mind Frick’ that yells back all the reasons you are not getting what you want.

For example, you may want to lose weight and you try the newest diet. Everything is going good for a little while and then “BAM” your weight loss comes to a halt. You tell yourself, “I can do this, I will be so happy when I reach my goal weight. The little voice in your head whispers back to you, “No you can’t, you are fat. Just look at yourself in the mirror, disgusting. Look at other people looking at you and judging you. They are all judging you.”

That ‘Mind Frick’, as Harv Eker calls it, is the program you are running internally that creates the negative environment around the cells which actually prevents the cells themselves from losing the fat molecules.

When you are stressed with any negative ‘Feeling Thought’ your body reacts in a pre-programmed manner. The very same situation plays out when you are trying to get that promotion you always wanted or succeed in some other manner.

For a moment you believe you can get the job and then the ‘Mind Frick’ begins filling your body with all the negative reasons from your own self-doubt of ‘Why’ you cannot have what you want. The interesting twist here is we ALL have an intuitive sense and when other people hold up self-doubt or any weakness we can sense it.

Those negative feelings you are holding regarding your self-worth are translated energetically by others. I am sure we have all met people we have thought afterwards how pathetic they were. It is their inner energy they are giving off. They may be the most kindest and loving people if only they could move past their own self-worth challenges.

In my new book, ‘Fears, Phobias & Freedom’ we will guide you on a deeper understanding of how this works and what you can do to change the programs. Once you learn how to recognize these programs changing them becomes the easy part.

‘Fears, Phobias and Freedom’ will be available later this year in book stores and here at our website.

 

Have a Happier, Healthier, more Prosperous Day

 

Dan Brooks

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You Are The Sum of Your Belief’s

Greatness can be achieved by anyone as long as they follow a few key principles. Key number One is ‘Definiteness of Purpose’.

There is no such thing as an incurable disease only incurable belief’s. When we practice the habit of thinking about our pain and suffering we only validate that process within ourselves. When we think of poverty or how unfair the world is, we validate that also in our physical presence.

Today with the coming of the new year, I wanted to share a video from an old friend that I have followed for years. I call this person an old friend even though we have never met and will never have the opportunity to do so. I call him a friend because it is truly a friend who would share his knowledge to help us along our way.

Please ponder the words and hopefully you will find the ‘KEY’ to living a blessed life.


 

As always, your comments are welcome have a Happier, Healthier, more Prosperous day.

DanB

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My Love Hate relationship with Christmas?

At times I believe the whole world has gone completely crazy. We have taken one of the most magical times of the year and completely tainted it for the “Love of What?.”

Buy This, Buy That! Buy, Buy, Buy, Buy!

Emotions and Stress run high this time of year mostly over the worry of what we can buy or what we will get. Family members who do not get along are forced together into gatherings where they must grit their teeth and Tolerate each others presence… and Presents. Families who do not have much are reminded how poor and inadequate they are. They are reminded of the disparity in their lives and many lose all hope. That is why this time of year we also see more suicides than any other time of the year.

The radio and TV stations blurt out old Christmas carols and Christmas shows to get you in to the spirit of Christmas. But exactly what is that?

The ad campaigns from large corporations show us promises of love if we just buy and give their products. Religions and the ‘Politically Correct’ squabble over the right to call it “Christmas” or “The Holiday season”. The other Ad campaigns tell we must give to the needy or you are not a good person.

Amongst us all there is an inner feeling of disconnection and confusion. To more and more people this has become a time of sadness and not hope. Even the people who say they really love this time of year because it takes them back to their childhood, but what is that feeling they are missing within themselves?

I remember Christmas differently. I believe we have to ponder Christmas from a child’s point of view. There was an innocence back them that was truly unrivalled. The feeling of hope and believing in something that was good, even if it didn’t always turn out that way. The very reason the season came together was to celebrate the Christian religions birth of Jesus Christ who was in my opinion one of the greatest messengers of ‘Hope’. It doesn’t matter what faith you are or if you are an atheist or agnostic. If you read the words even as a person seeking personal development you will find stories and words of ‘Hope’. Stories of “loving each other” and the great power we have within ourselves to overcome even the greatest of obstacles.

Hope is the message of this time of year. But it seems the further we reach into the convoluted basket of political correctness, religious faiths, and the pursuit of More Money, the more distant this message becomes.

Remembering the message of the birth of a ‘Hope’ giver has the power to engage us and help us see the creative power we each hold within us.

In our house we look forward to gathering of family and friends. The Joy and Happiness of sharing the Love of this season. And,  most of all the Hope that we can all become more.

This year I am going to spread a message of hope to those I come in contact with.

This year I hope we realize we are all members of one race, the human race. Where one culture, belief, or color does not have dominion over the other.

There is Hope that we can replace this Gluttony of having more stuff with compassion towards all others despite our differences.

This year I hope we begin to see ourselves as the truly remarkable perfection of creation we are. We have the ability to heal ourselves through our choices in the food we eat and joy of living an altruistic life.

There is hope that the food companies will realize people are more import than profits and maybe they will stop poisoning our foods with additives just to get a better bottom line.

There is hope that the alternative energy solutions which already sit in the worlds Patent offices will be opened and allowed to be developed for the sake of our planet and our children’s future.

There is Hope that our medical industry will see there are alternative therapies which have been curing Cancer, Heart disease, Diabetes and so much more. These alternatives have been there since the mid 1920’s and thousands of case studies have proven their viability.

There is hope that just one more person will stand up and say, “Maybe I cannot change the world but I can change myself.”

There is hope that democratic governments will remember they were elected to represent the PEOPLE and NOT the corporations, Or, to line their own pockets at the expense of so many others.

There is hope that the ultra rich of the world may see that all the material things in the world will not chase away their fear of poverty. For what kind of people would we be if we had all the gold and did not share it.

There is Hope that we will discover there is far more economic growth in creating new technologies than there is in holding on to the destructive ones we have adopted out of our own ignorance.

There is Hope that You and I will realize there is a great inequality in our world and we need to correct this madness in ourselves. We need to realize we live our lives in the pursuit of happiness not in the pursuit of money or things.

So this is my message this Christmas season. I will remember the birth of the great messenger of Hope & Peace and use my ability to share that message with others. I will remember the words, “Peace and Earth and Goodwill towards all mankind.”

Merry Christmas

As always your comments are welcome.

Have a Happier Healthier more Prosperous day

DanB

 

 

 

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Is it the Pain or the Fear of Pain

I ponder the notion of Pain and how it affects us. What does Pain really feel like?

I know we have our descriptions of how and where it hurts but why does the pain survive in our bodies so much longer after the healing has been done. You see many people who live with chronic Pain go to their doctors, have X-rays and MRI’s and nothing can be found. No physical condition or defect appears and yet there it is, the Pain.

Recently when I was working with a client who had a car accident they complained that their shoulders were filled with agony. They could not sleep or sit, stand or walk without this constant pain. It had become debilitating to them. The tests could find no injury to the shoulders.

I asked if they thought about the accident much. And they expressed that they did not feel they did. But when I would ask them about going back to work and getting into a car to take them there the pain would intensify. Using EFT we worked on the Fear of that accident. As you can imagine any person that has ever been involved in a traumatic situation the reliving of that event can be horrific. Heck, going through the event in the first place can be horrific.

Working on the emotions and Fear of that event relieved the Pain in just minutes. The pain in their shoulders left and also the numbness in their fingers, which they had not even mentioned. It was wonderful to be part of that healing journey for this individual.

It is at times like this I question how powerful are the fears we have inside us. In a recent workshop I broke down a series of fears to show the seed of where it came from. The ‘Fear of Pain’ is probably one of the most powerful emotions we can have. But it is not just our fear of Physical Pain, it is our fear of Emotional Pain that is really the big one.

Our first journey into Emotional Pain begins within the womb. As the stressed mothers body releases hormones which signal that small person something is wrong in the world I am going into, the seed of fear has been planted.

How many times has someone used the Fear of Emotional Pain on you to get you to do what They wanted you to do. The parent that said, “If you are not good, Santa won’t bring you presents.” Or “BE quiet or I’ll smack you.”

Fear of Pain has been present in us since we were but wee ones. It is always the Emotional Pain that far out ways the Physical Pain. Ponder this thought for a moment…

If you were in a car accident where you physically experienced Pain and Trauma, it would also remain as a major Emotional Event in your life. After the body heals, it is the Fear of Pain that wants to stop you from getting into a situation like that again. The mere thought of going back in to a car causes physical pain in your body.

Use EFT to work on the Emotional Pain you experienced during the event and the physical pain subsides.

For help using EFT for Pain search our video files for “Pain Relief in 2 Minutes” and follow the instructions.

I hope this helps you understand the root of your Pain an provides you with a solution to resolve it.

Have a happier, healthier, more prosperous day

 

Dan B

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I Wanna Feel Good

Never were truer words written than those. Everything we do, everything we take part in, the end result is we want to feel good.

It makes you wonder why we spend so much of our time pondering and brooding over the negative aspects in our life rather than doing what makes us feel good. It is the key to happiness and prosperity.

Defining what makes us feel good varies from person to person. To some, feeling good is doing something physical with their bodies like exercise, dance, yoga or participating in an event or hiking adventure.

To satisfy our minds we read books, play games, watch a movie and the list goes on.

When people want to feel good spiritually they will gather with friends and family, go to church, meditate or get closer to nature.

We are holistic beings who have a constant desire to fulfill ourselves by doing things that feel good. We feel out of balance when we are following any other path and our bodies fill up with stress, pain and disease.

We are physically hardwired to do things to make ourselves feel good. You can only be in two states, growth or death. Feeling good equals growth. Feeling bad equals the latter.

There is no right way to feel good and there is no wrong way to feel good. It is personal to each of us and serves our needs based on our beliefs. Isn’t it great that we live in a time and place where there is so much we can enjoy?

Recently I was blessed to meet a group of young people who have decided to put together a Conference based on this very intent… To Feel Good.

As I said to each of us this is an individual need and these people have put together a weekend conference that brings together numerous aspects of that from the physical, to the mental, to the spiritual needs we all have.

The “i wanna feel good conference” runs from November 11th to November 13th, 2011 in Sudbury. This weekend event will see lectures and workshops on a wide variety of topics tailored to each individuals beliefs and needs. Everything from eating right, to yoga and even how to improve your professional performance in the workplace.

Of course I will be speaking at the conference also as a keynote speaker Friday evening on “I Wanna Give Up Pain” . Imagine that! In this workshop I will teach people how lower their stress hormones and elevate their Happy Hormones which are the same ones that also relieve pain. The workshop will be an amazing journey for those who have never attended one of our workshops before. For those who have experienced one of our recent workshops you will be able to reinforce the techniques I have taught you and really expand on living a pain free life. These workshops always deliver positive results even for those people who suffer chronic pain.

You can view the different speakers, topics and register for the workshop(s) by going to “iwannafeelgood.ca” and following the links. There is a special meditation on Friday morning at 11 a.m. for those who want to participate in a world healing event.

I hope to see you at the conference and finding your own personal ‘Feel Good’ knowledge.

Feel Good and live life striving for that.

 

Have a Happier, Healthier, more Prosperous day

 

Dan Brooks

 

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